People know your name — not your stories, griefs, tough feelings….

Sanjoli Khurana
3 min readMay 9, 2021

They’ve heard of what you’ve done but, not of what you’ve been through. So, take people's opinions for you with a grain of salt. In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you think and knows of yourself that counts. Sometimes, you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life — not what’s best for everyone else.

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You’ll often find opinionated people or very judgemental ones in your life & hustles. Sometimes you will also fall into a trap of judgement from a far-sided eye.

Understand that, humans are so quick in making opinions rather than deeply empathizing. Ignoring people completely will also harm, as it will reflect your ego and other vices.

How can you actually have the intellect to fight with the opinions of others?

Knowing yourself and where you stand and how you have come across so far matters, but what if you feel bad about yourself

Ahmm , then, of course, you will get bad…

Didn’t understand?

Your thoughts determine your results, as you think so you become.

Yes, indeed

Some of the most successful people in the world have admitted that using willpower alone to power their success isn’t enough. Why?

Because it leaves us exhausted and there’s a better way.

Your thoughts determine your results. The key is to let go of negative thoughts and images and instead, fill your mind with positive thoughts and images.

How do you do this?

One technique is to use daily affirmations, which are simply statements that describe a goal in its already completed state.

It’s simple: repeat affirmations to yourself as often as you can.

Write it down, or speak aloud each morning.

Be more understanding, a good decision-maker, thinker, planner, and make your thinking levels sorted by focussing more on good things in your life.

It really works and makes a positive difference in the lives of others.

First and foremost Gratitude !!!

Thanks to God & a rare few individuals in your life who are a major part of your life who have listened to you without judgment, spoken without prejudice, helped you without entitlement, understood you without pretension & loved you without conditions.

Grateful to be alive

Grateful to be healthy

Grateful to have all the basic amenities in life.

I am the best.

Today is my day.

Today I free myself from fear and I open my heart to welcome real love.

I am the luckiest and most blessed soul in this world.

I am the most successful soul.

I am the happiest & wealthiest soul.

I am inner peace.

I live in present.

I enjoy my life.

I have everything that it takes to a satisfied and prosperous life.

Only good things come to me.

I am content.

I am a confident soul.

I free myself from anger.

I welcome new opportunities and ideas.

I welcome good people in my life.

I easily succeed in every situation.

You have to stick to your instincts. Listen to well-wishers, constructive criticism, and I would rather say, to listen to haters more because they are the only ones who know that they can never be you.

But …

Do what you want to do, decide for yourself.

Follow your own heart, mind, body & soul.

You have to fight against the hustle of your own struggles.

Decide, prioritize thinking & people in your life. It will be you at the end who will make a ladder of fortune, not your destiny but your optimistic thoughts will show your way to success.

Life is even more beyond success, be such an optimist to even work harder after getting your unique success point. Give more pain and sorrows in your life, they have the potential to turn it into your success.

Who sacrifice and continue working till long, those are real gems. Remember !!!

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Sanjoli Khurana

Developing Product Thinking mindset -Shout-out to Inquisitive growing peeps! & product geeks | Books| Psychology & everything that life has taught me.